Maybe not this week, but of course you can run the Boston Marathon…unless your attitude says you can’t. If you think you can’t do something, you’re right. If you think you can, you are also right.
Follow this formula:
Success comes from goals. Goals come from results. Results come from our daily behaviors. Our behaviors are driven by our attitudes.
Our attitudes are 100% in our control. Many people let past conditioning, outside circumstances, or even other people get to their attitude. Since our success starts with our attitude, challenge your feelings when you are telling yourself you can’t do something. Remember, human beings are only limited by self-imposed limitations. It’s amazing to me that two human beings in the same situation can have very different BELIEFS as to what their ultimate potential could be. One runner believes her potential is to someday increase her time to 60-minutes on a treadmill while the next runner believes she will complete the Boston Marathon next April. Attitude is what makes similar people achieve vastly different results. Also, challenge your attitude when you catch yourself thinking, “I’m having a bad day” or “That person MAKES me mad!” We choose our attitudes. Is it really a “bad” day if it’s raining or snowing outside? Do you have to become angry at the rude driver or can you choose to smile and wave at them? I actually have fun doing that…knowing they are expecting an obscene gesture. Sometimes, they even apologize to me. You see, attitudes are also contagious. Your attitude also stems from your prior experiences and conditioning. Conditioning that can be changed. Right now you have an attitude about this blog posting…is it positive or negative?…and why?
Written by RLA Associate, executive coach and acclaimed speaker Jim Desrosiers, M.M. For more information, please visit www.GROWTHco.com.